How do I tell others we're not accepting visitors?The person nearing the end of life has full authority over how they spend their time and energy. Some may welcome visitors until the very end, while others might prefer solitude or limited interactions as they conserve their strength.
As a caregiver, you may be tasked with clearly compassionately conveying these boundaries, which can be difficult. I've made a sample email you can modify and send if your loved one would like to limit visits. |
I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings by saying they can't visit.You can emphasize that this decision is about managing energy and ensuring comfort, not a reflection of the relationship. And you may find it helpful to offer alternative ways for these individuals to share their love and goodbyes.
These strategies are included in the template email. |
Hi! I'm Kasey.I help people contemplating or nearing the end of their lives have a well supported death.I'm a trained end of life doula who provides education, support, and advocacy to my clients and their circle of care.
My superpower? I’m great at learning wildly complex systems (often designed to exclude or confuse folks) and explaining them to others in ways that are easier to navigate. Like the time my mom injured her back and I helped her file all the disability paperwork for the state and the hospital where she worked. I work with clients one-on-one through Doula Care for Dying, empowering them to make decisions and plans that result in end of life care aligned with their individual values. I want folks to have space to focus their time and energy at the end of their life on what matters most. Will you join me on this mission? |
Yes, Please!
I'll Take the Template

Doula Care for Dying, LLC. serves southern Vermont, New Hampshire, and nationwide virtually.
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Call (802) 546-1110
Email: [email protected]