What Is Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking (VSED)?
Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking, often called VSED, is a personal end-of-life choice made by some individuals who wish to bring their life to a natural close. It can be an act of autonomy, allowing you to decide when and how your dying process unfolds.
As your VSED doula, my role is to offer compassionate, non-medical support for both you and your loved ones. I work alongside your healthcare team, hospice providers, and family to ensure you feel informed, respected, and cared for every step of the way.
Whether you are certain about your decision or still exploring whether voluntary stopping eating and drinking is right for you, you deserve a knowledgeable, non-judgmental companion by your side. My commitment is to help create an environment of dignity, comfort, and peace — for you and those you love.

The Role of a VSED Doula in End-of-Life Support

​A VSED doula provides emotional steadiness, practical guidance, and compassionate presence for individuals choosing voluntary stopping eating and drinking. This includes preparing for the process, supporting loved ones, and creating a peaceful environment that honors your values.

Why Choose Professional VSED Doula Support
Choosing VSED can be a tender, emotional process — for both the individual and their loved ones. Having professional doula support can help by:
  • Providing a calm, informed presence.
  • Helping loved ones understand and accept the process.
  • Offering comfort measures and supportive rituals.
  • Coordinating with hospice and care providers.
  • Ensuring the space feels peaceful and intentional.

​My Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking (VSED) Doula Services

Every VSED journey is unique. My role is to offer gentle, professional support that honors your wishes and keeps your comfort at the center.
Initial VSED ConsultationA confidential conversation to understand your wishes, answer questions, and discuss what voluntary stopping eating and drinking might look like for you. This is a safe space to share your thoughts, hopes, and concerns without judgment.
VSED Care PlanningWe create a personalized plan addressing your comfort, emotional well-being, and spiritual needs. This includes coordinating with hospice or medical providers, preparing your home, and communicating your wishes to loved ones.
Family Guidance and SupportI offer education and emotional support for family members, helping them understand the process and navigate their own feelings while being present for you.
On-Site VSED Doula PresenceWhen you are ready to begin, I can be there in person to offer calm, steady presence — during the start of the process, at key moments, or through ongoing visits.
Resources and Legacy ProjectsCurated VSED resources, comfort strategies, and guidance for creating legacy projects such as letters, recordings, or rituals that reflect your life and values.

What to Expect from the VSED Process with a Doula by Your Side

Beginning voluntary stopping eating and drinking (VSED) is a significant and personal decision. Having a knowledgeable VSED doula can help you and your loved ones feel prepared, supported, and cared for every step of the way.
When we work together, you can expect:

  • A calm, guided beginning – Reviewing your plan, answering questions, and ensuring emotional readiness.
  • Ongoing presence and reassurance – In-person or remote companionship to bring comfort and ease.
  • Support for physical comfort – Collaborating with your care team to address symptoms and ensure dignity.
  • Family communication and guidance – Helping loved ones understand the VSED process with compassion.
  • Rituals and moments of meaning – Incorporating personal touches that bring peace and connection.

​Each VSED journey is unique. My role is to help you move through it with dignity, compassion, and unwavering respect for your choices.
"We were so grateful for the calm, loving presence throughout my husband's VSED journey. It made all the difference knowing Kasey was there for both of us." – Anonymous Family

VSED Resources for Individuals and Families

Reading: Books and articles on voluntary stopping eating and drinking.
Guides: Comfort measures, communication tips, and planning checklists
Support: Links to VSED advocacy and education organizations.

Begin Your VSED Doula Support Journey Today
​You don’t have to walk this path alone. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your wishes and plan your voluntary stopping eating and drinking journey.

​Every conversation is confidential and guided by compassion.